What often happens is this: your conscious mind is saying, this is what I want—I want to attract something different. But in reality, you’re attracting what feels familiar… not what you truly want. Because these patterns live below your conscious awareness, they continue to play out automatically. And if you’ve never done the work to stop, interrupt, or shift the pattern, it will keep repeating. This doesn’t just apply to relationships. It shows up everywhere—  • Patterns aro